We’ve all seen the statistics on New Year’s Resolutions. About 45% of people make a promise to themselves for how they will do things differently in the coming year. Then, only 8% of people consider themselves successful at keeping their resolutions beyond a few months. The good news is that close to half of resolution-setters feel that they achieved at least part of their goal. Resolutions are about causing a behavior change. In many ways, our job as a leader is to help ourselves and others make those same behavior changes. Let’s look at some ways we can set ourselves up for success in the new year.
Define what success looks like in the coming year
Many people start with intentions around activities without first deciding on their overall definition of success for the coming year. Before making resolutions, ask yourself this:
If at the end of this year, I have my best year ever and exceed my own expectations, what will have happened?
In order to achieve our goals, we must be very specific about the things we have to accomplish. Then, we can figure out how to make them happen for ourselves and others.
Decide what habits we need to create in order to achieve these goals
Life is all about habits and patterns. In many ways they define our potential and our results. Without good ones, we can wish things were better, but they won’t be. If we want to read more, but the first thing we do is grab our phone and check email, then we must create a new habit that causes different results. Willpower simply is not enough. Imagine if we had to consciously think about how to brush our teeth or how to tie our shoes. We would be mentally exhausted by noon. But, our habits also cause us to roll over and grab the phone first thing in the morning, rather than living our day based on how we think it should look. In order to change a behavior, we must create a new trigger that helps us change the habit. Put a magazine or book on the nightstand and leave the phone on the dresser or in the closet. Remember, it’s impossible to break habits. We can only create new ones to replace the old ones. Habits remain with us forever. We can revert to an old, less desirable habit pretty quickly if we let the new, better habit slide too long.
Revisit the “why” every day
People achieve things they deeply care about much more often than things they think they should do, were told to do, or things they do to please someone else or keep their job. The whole point of defining your success by looking to the end of the coming year is to allow yourself to mentally live in that moment. It’s important to mentally spend time in your future success. Think about the place where you have achieved things you are proud of, grown in ways you care about, and conquered challenges you feel good about. Afterall, you chose specific goals because they represent who you want to become. Goals connected to something meaningful are more attainable. As a result, we are willing to work hard enough to make them a reality. Find a few moments every day to live in that future reality. Remember why you are trying to change habits in the first place. This will help you plan consciously to achieve your goals. It also helps wire your brain to create habits that support the changes you are making.
Leadership is about learning how to create change for ourselves to help us achieve more. In turn, it helps us support others to achieve their greatest potential. Understanding how human behavior change happens and how we can leverage that knowledge more effectively is essential for achieving our full potential and becoming an invaluable leader for others.
How will you make this year a success? Learn more about developing a vision to create the practice you want.